Dear D. Romance: I’ve learned my lesson
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Dear Dr. Romance:
I saw your video ‘Don’t Call Your Ex’ Great video post, good advice.
I couldn’t agree with you more. It was a very timely message for me. Just recently, I decided to let go of my partner…for good…It’s only been 2-1/2 months since our split….We broke up before, but he came back after 4 months separation. In the video, you said if he really loves me, he’ll be back again. I’m hoping…but not calling,emailing or texting anymore. I’ve learned my lesson.
I’m glad you’ve decided to let him figure it out for himself. It’s the only way he’ll know whether he loves you or not — and the only way for you to know, too. ‘Three Ways to Get Over Your Ex’ might be helpful.
Just in case he does call you, you might want to read ‘Dr. Romance: Guidelines for Dating Your Ex’ If he doesn’t, The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again will help you find a better guy. Good luck! I wish you a happy and successful relationship, with him or with someone else.
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Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. is a licensed psychotherapist in S. California since 1978 with over 30 years experience in counseling individuals and couples and author of 13 books in 17 languages, including It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction, The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again, Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting About the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage, The Commuter Marriage, and her newest, Love Styles: How to Celebrate Your Differences. She writes the Dr. Romance blog, and the Happiness Tips from Tina email newsletter.
Dr. Tessina, is CRO (Chief Romance Officer) for LoveForever.com, a website designed to strengthen relationships and guide couples through the various stages of their relationship with personalized tips, courses, and online couples counseling. Online, shes known as Dr. Romance Dr. Tessina appears frequently on radio, and such TV shows as Oprah, Larry King Live and ABC News.